Saturday, July 21, 2012

Only A Fool Will Be In A Relationship Without Honesty

Only A Fool Will Be In A Relationship Without Honesty

Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom. -Thomas Jefferson

He smiled, spoke softly, and looked me in the eye, and then he lied.
~ Veronica Stripe (My Last Romance)

Somebody said most black Nigerian guys prefer to date girls who are dummies they can use for their ego trips and most girls in Nigeria prefer to date guys who are idiots or Fall Guys. But the beautiful Amara Blessing, the author of the Weekend With Amara column in The Guardian on Saturday of Nigeria said:
"Why should you be in a relationship in which there is no HONESTY?".
And I am 100% in sync with her. Because, let us call a spade a spade, ONLY A BLOODY FOOL will be in a relationship in which there is NO HONESTY. But unfortunately most of the relationships often start with LIES!
It is either he is lying to lure her into a relationship or she is lying to hook him for her selfish pursuit.

So, it becomes a two can play issue or dog eat dog affair of another case of who is fooling whom? And in many cases, the girls or women in general are always the cry babies of the Broken Hearts Club, because, the women are often the losers when the cookie crumbles. So, don't be a fool. And if you have already been fooled before, make sure you are not fooled again.

There are some things that we know are just not as pleasant as the lies that we tell ourselves, and in that sense in order to endure existence everyone endures a certain amount of dishonesty in their everyday lives.
~ Todd Rundgren

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