Friday, June 20, 2014

Don't Be Desperate For Love Or You Will Never Find True Love

Love does not insist on its will, because love is not a dictator.
Anyone who forces himself or herself on you is not in love with you, but only obsessed with you.

Anyone who tells you "I cannot be happy without you" is a liar.
Anyone who says "I will never love anyone else, except you" is a liar.

Never swear that your boyfriend or girlfriend will never cheat on you, because you will be disappointed in the end.
What determines the state of your relationship and how long it will last is neither you nor your lover, but the seen and unforeseen circumstances of Time.
For what determines our actions and choices are in most cases are propelled by circumstances and the consequences of our reactions to these circumstances and not by who we are or what we have.

In romance, action and reaction are not opposite and equal.
And in love, what goes up may never come down.

The end of a relationship is not the end of your love.
That is why your ex may still be missing you now.

Anyone who tells lies to date you does not love you.
For anyone who lies to you is already unfaithful to you.

Do not date anyone you don't know how he or she lives at home and behaves at work.
Meaning, you must find out before you agree to date anyone.
Only fools don't find out before jumping into bed with anyone.

Do not chase after anyone who is chasing after another person.

Only fools date those who cannot improve their lives.

You cannot give what you don't have.

~ Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima, aka Orikinla Osinachi, author of Diary of the Memory Keeper and other best selling books.

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