Saturday, July 16, 2011
I Don't Care If She Has Slept With 1, 000 Other Men Before I Met Her
If you truly love a woman and she tells you the truth about her past life like she has lost count of how many men she dated before she met you, NOTHING should stop you from loving her.
Personally, I do not care if she has slept with over 1, 000 men before she met me.
What matters most is she is with me NOW and I will do my best for her.
If you really and truly love a woman, then do not use her past imperfections to judge her present life as long as she does not rake up the skeletons or conjure the ghosts to disturb your life.
Men always make so much fuss over how many guys a girl has dated before meeting them, but hardly kick up dust over their own past sexual activities. HYPOCRITES!
Before you judge her, please check and crosscheck your own "semen smeared and blood stained" records of how many girls you have also slept with and those who even committed abortions for you.
Lest you forget, those girls will also end up with other men and become their wives later.
The number of men she has dated before you met her should not stop you from loving her and getting married. Many former commercial sex workers have turned out to be good wives even after many active years as prostitution.
The fact is nobody is really holier than another. The girl who has had only two guys is not holier than the one who laid one hundred guys.
Girls who claim to be more decent are not Mother Teresa.
Just be honest.
You either accept the truth or live in denial of the facts of life.
Let us be very realistic in life.
I do not really care about the man a girl is sleeping with as long as she is honest about it. It is her life.
But I hate it when she lies and pretends to be a good girl when she is not better than the dogs she is calling a bad name to discredit them in order to curry your favour for her own selfish reasons.
If a man truly loves you, he will not use your past sexual history to judge you today.
Many of us who even claim to be pious Christians or Muslims often change our decisions over dating or marrying a woman once we find out that she has had a very promiscuous life before we met her. Then on Sunday we go to church or go to the Mosque on Friday praying, fasting and wishing for VIRGINS or the NOT SO SPOILED maidens to court and marry. What nonsense!
Such hypocrites are worse than sinners and pagans.
Beware of them!
Imagine MEN who are not VIRGINS desperately looking for VIRGINS to marry!
Imagine men who have been promiscuous now looking for girls and women who are not promiscuous to date and marry!
What a joke!
These foolish men are all over the place fooling themselves.
~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima, author of Scarlet Tears of London, The Nigerian Fools Who Think They Can Fool God and other books.