Showing posts with label Linda Ikeji. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Linda Ikeji. Show all posts

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Notes from the Heart of Lagos City


Christabel Momodu on the yellow motor bike for a photo shoot.

Work has become very challenging and even success can come with stress as I have discovered working for Supple magazine in Lagos. We have been working all days, including on Sundays since the beginning of this year 2009.
The third issue of Supple magazine is going to be worth celebrating for many reasons. Three members of Nairaland Forum who responded to our open invitation for contributors have been published and one of them is a very brilliant young woman whose two articles were irresistible and the humorous title of one of her articles is even making the cover of this special international edition of Supple magazine. Supple magazine was the only Nigerian news media accredited at the 30th Festival of 3 Continents in Nantes, France, and for the 81st Academy Awards in the U.S. and we are organizing the First Supple Magazine Forum on Nollywood and the Cannes Film Festival before going for Cannes in May.

I am also busy writing and preparing three unpublished volumes of my writings for publication. The most important volume is my book on the presidential campaign, nomination and election of Barack Obama as the first Black President of the United States of America. The book is in the good and safe hands of my American Editor Pamela and I have appointed the Publisher of Supple magazine as my manager in Nigeria and abroad.

I have not been with my Sweetest since last August and I am missing her. I appreciate the company of Linda Ikeji, the beautiful model and Publisher of the FM&B magazine, Funke, Vicky Charmy, Christabel Momodu and other beauties who have been making my life in Lagos exciting. Christabel is one of the hottest models in Nigeria today and you can see her in the latest edition of True Love magazine. She is hottie on the motorbike in the picture above. Isn’t she dark and lovely?!


But yesterday, I was heart broken by the predicament of a 13 year old house girl who was lured away Friday night and raped till day break. She could not even tell the location of the man who abducted her and raped her in the suburb of Shomolu in Lagos, Nigeria.
The girl is from Togo where many housemaids hired by Nigerian families come from.
Many young girls and women are abused and raped daily in Nigeria and the rapists often escape from prosecution. This is the subject of the new novel of Bisi Daniels, The Girl From Nigeria.


Saturday, January 31, 2009

Memories of Yesterday

Yesterday was my birthday and Linda Ikeji and her associate came to celebrate with me and we chose the Mr. Biggs near my office to eat and drink before she left for her own office.
I appreciated the quality time we spent discussing celebrity blogging and the efforts to make blogging popular in the most populous nation in Africa where the majority are still ignorant of what a blog is. Bella Naija, Linda Ikeji and Calabar Girl are the most popular Nigerian bloggers in the global village. There is no need to drop my name here, because I am a totally different kind of blogger. Blogging to me is not for Personality Popularity Contest (PPC). Most of my over 30 blogs are for news, business or educational subjects. I also have a blog on The Des Moines Register and other major news websites. Blogging to me is not a pastime, but a medium for news and information for the advancement of human development. I advised Linda to take blogging as serious as her FM&B magazine.

I am glad and grateful to the Almighty God Jehovah for giving me a beautiful, wonderful and great life and I love to do my best for as many people as possible.

My First Lady QMC woke me up with her sweetest wishes and she made my day.


Thursday, March 27, 2008

A Lie is A Lie and A Liar is A Liar, No Matter How or Why You Lied

My friend Linda Ikeji, called me to howl about the post I made on many Nigerian girls and women telling lies online, because of their insecurities.
She said she only lied to me and not to the readers of her blog and posted her "fantasy" on why she lied to me.
That she did not want to hurt my feelings.
As if I have feelings anyone can hurt?
Those who really know me only chuckled.

Most Nigerians mistake me for what they assume I am and forget that only God knows who I am.

can't believe u'll write a thing like this about me...ure friend for 11 years? shame on u...lol


I didn't lie on my blog, I lied to u. I just didnt want to hurt ur feelings by telling u i'm in love.

I am deeply in love with someone called Olu...I will introduce u to him when next u come to Lagos...kisses.

U've always had this fantansy that I'll be ur wife or some crazy stuff like that...

U really need to get ur head examined by calling everyone a liar.

~ Linda Ikeji

OMG!

I had a fantasy that you would be my wife?
I told you that?

I hope you still have the copy of the following e-mail of 4/18/07:

Darling Linda,

Congratulations on your recent engagement!

I am happy that you have been hooked.

Give my kudos to the lucky man.

I hope the man is enlightened enough to boost your dreams and won't make you give up your divine destiny.

Because, most Nigerian men have destroyed the dreams of the Nigerian women they married and it is amazing that the greatest woman in Nigeria today is Dr. Dora Nkem Akunyili who is only a civil servant.

Is it not a great pity that there is no Nigerian Oprah Winfrey or anyone in the same league?

The security situation is not good for my safety now, because of the violent elections and I am covering the elections for an American online news portal.

Give my regards to your family.

Cheers and God bless!


I had a fantasy that you would be my wife and I was having relationships with other women from Nigeria and America since my former publisher introduced you to me in 1997?

I had a fantasy that you would be my wife and I had a beautiful Nigerian actress I wanted to marry living with me until I ENDED THE RELATIONSHIP in 1999.

Do you want to see the photographs of the women I have loved and dare to compare to them from head to toes, tattoos and all.

I cannot even remember ever seeing you in any of my romantic dreams and almost every night, I have someone I always dream about and her name is not Linda and she not Igbo or Ibo. She is HOT! The only maiden I have ever asked to marry me and even gave a symbolic ring knows herself and she is still my numero uno since July 7, 2006, to date. She will not need plastic surgery to perfect her beauty. God who knows what I want, sent her to me.
She is the one I composed the poem "My African Beauty" to honour her.

For the sake of your own future, I will not go further, so that this would not end up on the front pages of Nigerian gossip newspapers and magazines.

You do not need to lie to me.
You do not need to lie to anybody.
Be true to yourself.

Be honest and transparent.

Be happy and be proud to say you have loved and you have been loved.
Be happy to admit you dated Dan Foster for three years and moved on, to fall in love with Olu.
It your life and not mine.
You do not need to lie about it.
Admit the truth.
Have you read my Let your priorities be determined by your realities and not your anxieties

I like love stories and would have written about yours.

Those who tell lies have insecurities.

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Change Your Life Day and Have Your Sweetest Day

I always enjoy the mails from Bob, the Editor, 123Greetings newsleter.

I am glad to share the latest newsletter with you.

I am dedicating three of the four special days to three of the most popular female bloggers in the Nigerian blogosphere, Bella Naija, Queenzy and Linda Ikeji.

Happy Change Your Life Day!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Hey people! I'm not like a full moon that comes once a month, but am like stars; just that don't look for me at the space, but the virtual one, the web space. I'm all over it… Now, I'm with your weekly dose of fun!

Here we go………


Change Your Life Day [Oct 19]
For
Bella Naija

When you step on the accelerator just about when you are gonna take a turn, it isn't exactly a wise thing to do. Ask me?! Well, I was the one who hit the bumper. I was jaywalking down the lane when the above-said maneuver was attempted and I was thrown across the pavement. I was conscious enough to understand the EMS sounds and the white-coated docs, but when they chattered about how I would lose or dislocate my left arm if it isn't held in a particular position I almost went unconscious. From the corner of my eye I could see some John Doe hold my hand. For all the 15 minutes it took I was just concentrating on my arm, not to move it even an inch; of course, he was holding it just right. I recuperated and came out in one piece after a few weeks. One day I happened to pass by the same hospital again and saw that this guy was involved in yet another emergency case. He was moving with concern and determination, written large on his face as if his life depended on it. I know, I paid my bills, paid my insurance its dues, and thanked my friends and family who were by my side when I was recuperating. But what about this guy, a virtual nobody, who is concerned and fighting it out there with no credentials as a doctor, but just a nurse. He doesn't care if he's paid the price of a life he has saved or waits for a pat. He is just another male that fills up the hospital floor. Mere number! At least for me! "Hey, he saved your arm!" I heard it loud this time. It came from within my heart. Found him in the Nurses Station in a relaxed mood for a change. He looked surprised. I don't know when was the last time he saw a patient walking in perfect health, come to him. I profoundly thanked him and even gave him a hug. I guess he was embarrassed. I know why. He never expected it. Nobody is inferior and everybody deserves a word of gratitude. Life is made of precious little moments like this and more often than not every single moment has a lesson or two, which could change our lives.

Mammography Day [Oct 19]
For all the women who need tender loving care at such a time as this.

Kate's mom, Diane, adores Aaliyah. She likes to shop with Aaliyah and likes her humility and choice of clothes. No wonder that Aaliyah too likes her a lot. Diane had mentioned to Aaliyah about a lump in her breast and Aaliyah has immediately fixed up an appointment for a mammogram. Diane was petrified, but touched by the gesture. Aaliyah wanted me to accompany them. I have a pin and needle phobia, but if your girlfriend asks you out even if it's to the coroner….go! That's my policy, I guess, it's universal?! Anyways, I was there and there instead of leafing through the magazines that teaches taboo things, I took a look at the chart. Man! I was so ignorant. I never knew much about breast cancer and the mortality rates and radiation therapy. This one is pretty serious. Well, the good news is Diane was carrying a benign lump and a simple extraction would do. But she is happy that she got a confirmation and has promised to come for a routine mammogram at the right intervals. I made sure I would pass on the information to my mom and ignorant ladies I know. Hey! No embarrassment there…it's a disease and there should be awareness….Aaliyah sides with me here…she goes, "Hey Bob's pals, innocence is sweet, but ignorance is crime." Did you hear that?! Go the Bob way, listen to the lady!


Sweetest Day [Oct 20]
For
The Adventures Of A Young Adult

Meggy has a habit. She is a choc-freak and everyone knows it. The adage goes, "women can't open boxes." Well, I don't really agree with that, but women do fill them up for sure. Meggy has boxes and boxes full of chocs and sweets that she has piled up over the months. That's her personal domain and no-entry-zone for everyone. On Sweetest Day, she had an excuse and spread her wares, boxes in this case, all over her place. She could become a mini-millionaire if she auctioned it. Such was the collection: Both quality and quantity. Steve was browsing channels on the television and froze on a non-profit organization ad for underprivileged children. Well, no guesses where we were headed. Megan, had a change of heart, and agreed to share her bounty. We've never been to an orphanage and didn't know what to expect. Of course, we expected disturbing scenes. No! That's a myth. Once we had a chat with the caretaker of the Home, the kids lined up for the goodies. And they literally ate out of Meggy's hands. They were happy to see us and jumped all over us, going for our pockets as any kid would do and playing with whatever they found for a while before depositing it back. With chocolate-smeared lips they kissed us all, especially Megan, who by now resembled a choc-dripping reservoir. We had a tear or two, watching the kids having fun, but they were anything but poignant. Kids being kids, they didn't need to think or judge, but just be themselves. Wow! Is there a way to make a sweet, sweeter?! Yes, share it with kids!

Babbling Day [Oct 21]

For LINDA IKEJI


When Megan goes babbling all day, it's tough for us to stop her. She does chat non-stop 24x7 and doesn't care even if it's Kong who is the one listening. So, when she goes suddenly quiet, that's not good news. Hmm….usual! Fight with the boss. She and her boss are chalk and cheese and they end up going for the jugular at least once a week. She was sitting by the fire, contemplating and playing back her duel scenes with the boss while we kept a safe distance from her. It's a known legend how Megan reacts when somebody pokes her while she is angry. Nah! No one dared. Our place was dead quiet even though four people were talking at the same time. Alas! Meggy's voice resounds better on the wall. She is the one with the microphonic shrill. Kong, the savior, stepped up to the plate. He went by the moaning Megan and sniffed and snuggled to open her up. And boy! Didn't she open up! She went, "You know Kong, the boss of mine…..blah, blah, blah, blah. . ." Babbling babe Megan on a roll, wink*, wink*. If the place is quiet and everything is neat, that's a museum. If there is clutter, Coke cans and juice tins strewn around then that's called a house err….rather Bob's place…



Remember buddies, you don't need everything to enjoy life, but a life to enjoy everything. You've got it, all you have got to do is enjoy it. I'm doing my bit…wink* wink*.

Take care and Play safe.

Bob !

Editor, 123Greetings