It is what I call "a bloody waste of time" to be in a relationship that cannot make you happy.
What makes most people happy is not always money, but security.
This is the kind of security only the assurance of love can give you and money cannot buy it.
You can be in a very financially secure relationship, yet you are not happy. Because your partner does not really or truly love you.
The relationship is more boring than exciting.
The cozy home, posh car or SUV, fun trips and regular provisions are there, but the most important thing is missing.
Which is the joy of being loved and knowing that your future is secure in a romantic and truly loving relationship.
If you are excited for him and he is not excited for you, PLEASE, look for the guy who will be excited for you.
If you are fond of her and she is not fond of you, PLEASE, look elsewhere for the lady who will be happy to see you and be with you.
Many have ended up with broken hearts, because they refused to leave those who did not really love them and chose to hang on, fooling themselves and wasting their bloody time.
Don't waste your bloody time if,
A guy does not call you for days or weeks and you are often the one calling him, BEWARE of him.
If he is not calling you, he is calling someone else.
You are chasing him, but he is chasing after another lady.
You are chasing a babe and the babe prefers the attention and companionship of another guy.
Don't assume that he or she will change and learn to appreciate and love you later.
There is no time for assumptions in relationship.
Is either you are SURE or you are NOT.
Life is too precious to be based on emotional assumptions.
The more realistic you are, the more secure you would be.
The first priority in a relationship is your security.
The man who loves a woman will do everything to make her happy.
The woman who loves a man will be proud of him in his presence and in his absence.
The man who loves a woman will defend her in her presence and her absence.
Not the one who will deny you behind you and betray you over money or sex.
It is also important to make sure that he or she prefers you before another lady or guy.
If you are just a number on his list, ask to be numero uno or leave him.
Don't allow any man to make you a second class girlfriend or he only wants you when he cannot get the first class girlfriend.
Be Miss eligible and not Miss available.
You are good enough to be his first lady.
Don't settle for less.
Don't say "I have no choice", because God knows you have a better choice somewhere.
~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima
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