It is common for girls to wait for the guys to make the first move in going out and dating. But waiting has made many babes to lose great guys to their rivals or to others who did not procrastinate for long before making the bold and beautiful move to initiate the romance.
Let us face it, there are some guys who are too hot to resist and if you overdo the "I will wait for him to come to me first", you gonna lose him even before the sunset.
There are many subtle ways to attract him without looking cheap or desperate.
1. You can go to him and ask any question or even direction of which God knows you already know the answer.
2. Ask him how you can get a particular book or an item.
3. You can simply collide with him and say "Huh. I am sorry" and from the apology, you can start talking.
A girl simply missed a step and pretending to be slipping in front of the guy she was tripping for and he quickly gave her a helping hand and she regained her balance in his arms and made sure he inhaled her perfume and whilst thanking him, she introduced herself. That was how their romance took off and it lasted for over 10 years!
Some girls go as far as brushing a guy with their bosoms or standing in his way and make it look like he is the one blocking their path.
A handsome guy in one office says several pretty and sexy girls keep coming around to ask for services they must have known that are not done in his office.
"Do you make photocopies here?" She asked
"No. This is not a business centre, " he replied.
"Oh, sorry. But I really have to make photocopies of this project for my M.Sc," she said in a very appealing voice and brandishing her big file in his face.
That was an opportunity to tell him that she was a graduate student to impress him to pay her more attention as she was dressed in body hugging blouse and tight jeans and high heels, showing her curvaceous body. She noticed him swallowing saliva in lust.
If you are too proud and he is equally proud, any of the above ways of approach would be good.
Don't wait for Mars and Venus to collide before it happens!
It is better to use any of these methods than risk losing him to another girl who is smart enough to go for what she wants without wasting time posing and posturing like a peacock.
I have seen where a girl visited a guy over 100 times before the guy reciprocated.
She was just crazy for him. And by the time he did, he gave her the "fuck" of the century when she gave him her hot "magna cumlaude Kitty".
In a particular case, the guy had to hide in the toilet when the girl's affection turned to harassment. But he eventually gave in.
One other girl went out of her way to join him in the office and often dressed up to work with him and he eventually gave in.
You can do all these and still delay Being Intimate with him.
Just be his good and reliable friend first.
Put friendship before relationship.
Lest you forget, offering sex to a guy does not mean you are in relationship with him.
To him, he just Were Intimate with you and no strings attached.
A prostitute can have sex with over 1, 000 customers, but choose to have a relationship with another guy and give him her whole body gratis.
Playing hard to get to a guy you really like and will like to date is not wise.
If you are sure you NEED HIM in your life, don't wait for him to come to you first.
~ By Orikinla Osinachi, author of Scarlet Tears of London, and other books.
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