I have noticed that single Nigerian ladies really get upset and edgy at the sight of Nigerian bachelors who are still bluffing single women.
In fact the older single ladies are more annoyed when they see upwardly mobile and happy go lucky Nigerian bachelors dating younger women. Because these younger women between ages 18 and 30 are actually tough competition for the older women above 30. And their population keeps doubling daily as young female secondary school leavers hit the street and the female graduates hit the road to either get a dream job or hook a dream man!
Why should the aging single ladies think these innocent bachelors are responsible for their STILL SINGLE AND SEARCHING (SSS) status?
It is really more frustrating for them, because older single men can date younger single women and the society permits and accepts it as natural and normal. But the same largely hypocritical elders of the society would frown and sneer at older single women dating younger single men.
Sincerely, I do really empathize with the SSS ladies in Nigeria, but they would fare better if they stop blaming bachelors for their loneliness and unhappiness.
Cheer up single ladies!
Yeah, yeah, yeah!
I know the biological clock does not stop and never clicks in your favour.
But learn to use all the options available to you.
You don't need to be married to be a mother and a good one for that matter.
And you don't have to be a home-breaker to get married too.
Leave another man's wife alone to enjoy her husband!
Lest you forget, what goes around comes around someday and somehow.
The sooner these legions of frustrated single ladies cheer up and decide to date any single older man or younger man, the better, healthier and happier they would be.
Look dear SSS sisters, if you want to go out with younger single guys in Nigeria, go for them, even the undergraduates and graduate students on and off campus.
If the older single guys who are "Aristos" can date and mate with younger campus babes, then you older single women can also date younger campus boys, even if they have mojos of ordinary 3 inches penile length.
Actually it has been medically proved that only 3 inches of the mojo is all a guy needs to satisfy a lady in sex.
You deserve to be single and happy and not single and miserable.
Trends are changing by the day as men all over the world no longer have to marry to have babies.
They prefer to have an open relationship without being lured or compelled into monogamy.
Why do you think majority of married men are cheating on their wives?
They are bored of monogamy!
You see married men sexually harassing their housemaids or chasing younger women instead of being tied up with their aging wives for life!
Marriage should not be like serving a life sentence!
Would you prefer to marry the bachelor who would cheat on you tomorrow or simply date him and even have a baby for him and still remain single to stay on dating him or switch to another hotter guy to do the map reading of your mountains and valleys?
Yes, my dear I know that marriage gives you security and respect in the society.
But which society?
The society of hypocrites who are just paying mere lip service and eye service to their religious tenets and societal ethics, but indulge in acts contrary to their so called beliefs?
Who is fooling whom?
Do you know that some women do come on the romance forum with black eyes from fights with their nasty guys?
Any single woman who accepts to be battered by a man before getting married is going to end up losing her respect and pride of place when married to him.Like the man who even went as far beating his wife at the Mr. Biggs fast foods restaurant in Lagos and then slept with the sister in-law of his neighbour right under the nose of his miserable wife.
Let us be realistic.
Who says a woman cannot be fulfilled without marriage?
From Oprah Winfrey to Funmi Iyanda, Mo Abudu, Chioma Ude, Genevieve Nnaji and Stephanie Okereke who has even achieved more as a single woman than when she was married and miserable.
I wish you can read my lips now.
Stop feeling frustrated and bitching here and there and look at the good examples of the SINGLE, SUCCESSFUL AND SATISFIED WOMEN (SSSW) and go on and fulfill your dreams and in fact there are bachelors who can help you all the way to the top from the bedroom to the boardroom.
C'mon SSS ladies, go and rock the world!
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